Thursday, October 23, 2008

Ethical question

If you find out you may have a sexually trasmitted disease from a prior relationship, what options do you have with your current girlfriend? Do you tell her? Or do you get tested and ONLY tell her if you come back positive.

To me, this is a no-brainer. If I get a call or an anonymous note from an ex that she is std positive, and that I should get tested, I keep this information above top secret. I make an appointment with a clinic immediately. What I don't do is tell my girlfriend about it. The safest play is to wait to get the test results back; if they come back negative, it's like the whole event never happened. Imagine if you told your girlfriend and you came back negative? That bitch would never forgive you. In fact, she'd be hopping on the first strange dick she could find.
Now, if you come back positive, then you need to own up to your responsibility. With the tough economic crisis happening, there's no need to make her worry more about something you may not even have. Keeping this information from your girlfirend only shows how committed you are to her mental health. All women are crazy to begin with, you shouldn't make them extra crazy if you can help it.

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